What do you do when you get off work?

Hello Mark Hamilton,
I am sorry for your recent loss. Please accept my condolences. My mother has been gone a year now. I yet grapple with all the effects of loss and grief. One thing has kept me through all the trying times of late.
“What do you do when you get off work? No matter how much you love your job, when you get off work-you go home and prepare for the next day. You rest the body, feed it, preen, primp, you look over the next day’s schedule, make executive decisions based on the fluidity of the day(not everyone is detailed oriented), take a shower or soak, clear your mind, replay the day’s events with an eye toward improvements, all the time inter-acting with your family and friends. Then you say goodnight, and go to bed, where you refresh the physical body(sleep/deep rem). I look @ death in this way. It has to be that way -for now. The human body replaces/renews/recycles, all parts of the body on a continuous cycle. Yet, even with such knowledge, it does not lessen the feeling of loss. It does spur thoughts as to the eradication of death. Children start out invincible, and are slowly “dumbed down” as to full potentials. As a “grown-up kid”. I am only trying offer another way to cope with death/loss of a loved one. By looking @ it in this manner-it also takes away the “fear” of death. And as you know and teach-“Fear is what has kept us in the dark as to who we really are, and more importantly-what we are”. I look forward to level two
Linda H.